examination that comes from a Full of Grace Study Guide:
.Evaluate all things by the affect it will have on my family OR me?
.Boast about accomplishments-overtly or subtly?
.Put my own preferences above that of others?
.Feel the need to command (or control) every situation?
.Talk about myself and my own concerns in every conversation?
.Want people to have a good opinion of me at any price?
.Use every opportunity to point out another's mistakes?
.'Bad mouth' others?
.Get impatient when contradicted or corrected?
.Want to be 'in the know'
.Enjoy the limelight?
.Refuse to readily admit faults, if at all?
.Try to cover up or excuse sins--even in confession?
.Believe deep down inside that I am better than others in any way,
be it socially, spiritually, or morally?
.Attribute any and all success to my own efforts?
.Cling to self-complacency:
.Get irritated (even slightly) if someone else gets attention and
These are some things to really think about and I need to work on some!!!
The Byzantine -rite churches, both Orthodox and Catholic apparently pray a prayer during lent (everyday), and it is called
The Prayer of St. Ephrem. It is good:
"Lord and Master of my life, do not give me a spirit of laziness or
idle curiosity, of ambition or empty talk.
Instead , grant to me, your servant, a spirit of self-control and
humility, of patience and love.
Yes, Lord and King, enable me to see my own failings, and not
to judge my brother or sister, for you are blessed
unto the ages of ages. Amen